The image you have of yourself is different than everybody else's image of you. Every single event in your life has led to who you are now, how your outlook on life is and what your view on yourself is. The fascinating thing is that only you truly know every aspect of your identity. The truth is that everyone sees you differently, every single person you meet will have a different vision of you. People only make an image of you based in what they know. Shocking right? Not really, everyone probably knew this already, but it’s good to be reminded.
Some people stay for a lifetime and some only stay for a minute. In the time they spend with you they create an image of who you are. The longer they stay, the more accurate the image. But you never really know exactly what people think of you or what image they have created of you. The people whose been in your life the longest probably know the most about you, but they might still view you as someone you would never view yourself. I often think that everyone sees me the same way as I see myself. But I have realised that they don’t. I want people to know that I’m a good person and I want them to have a good image of me. But I, and everyone else must remember that you can’t please everyone and should not feel obligated to either. It might be hard to think like this because some people might view you as someone you are not. However, we all just must accept that friends, lovers, teachers, parents, neighbours and enemies all will have a different view on who we are. But I think some people might even know you better than yourself. Isn’t it weird to think that maybe no one will ever see your identity the way it really is? Amelia Kvist, Vasa, Finland
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